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Communication & Tone

Over-Apologetic AI

The AI apologizes excessively for minor issues or even for user errors.

3 principles3 checklist items2 simulation modes

What you will learn

Professional Tone
Concise Acknowledgment
Focus on Solution
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Simulation Status: Idlev2.4.0

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Why it fails

Constantly saying 'I apologize', 'I'm sorry', 'My apologies' creates a submissive, annoying persona. It undermines user confidence and wastes reading time.

Root cause

RLHF training often rewards 'politeness' heavily. Safety training encourages the model to back down immediately when challenged.

How to fix it

Professional Tone
Concise Acknowledgment
Focus on Solution

Implementation checklist

  • Remove 'I'm sorry' from standard error preambles
  • Acknowledge the correction and move on
  • Maintain a helpful, neutral expert persona